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Magnolia1  (Level: 74.5 - Posts: 147)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 12:28 PM


Raised my little granddaughter from 1 and a half years old she left today with her parents at four years old ,can,t stop crying,heartbroken,need some reason to carry on, she is the sunshine of my life,what can i say............Kathy

Tue, 4th Apr '06 12:47 PM

Do you have a good relationship with her parents, and did she go far away? I am so very sorry to hear this... the heart break must be terrible. Are you still able to visit/see her?

Joelwdonnal  (Level: 117.9 - Posts: 268)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:08 PM

I had my grandson for most of the first 5 years of his life - it was hard to give him up but it was time his mom took over and I became grandma - life does go on - it doesn't lesson the hurt any but all things heal with time.

Tuzilla  (Level: 131.2 - Posts: 3769)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:08 PM

That is sad. How far will you be separated? I see you have a couple other "kids" who love you on the couch. Maybe it is time to do some early Christmas shopping.

Magnolia1  (Level: 74.5 - Posts: 147)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:13 PM

Justin can,t think straight today,don,t even know what i,m doing,can,t stop crying feel as if i,ve lost my whole world, she has been my world for so long,yes i have a good relationship with her mother,my daughter,not so good with son-in-law,has tried before to take baby, did,nt succeed,am so afraid,they are trying to work things out,still afraid, 200 miles away,in Alesha,s words "nanny get up it,s time of mornin"i yub you,want sompin for brestas, i hungary.....crying....wishing for the best .may be a miracle.......kathy

Flybybethy  (Level: 136.6 - Posts: 155)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:28 PM

Awww!! "yub you" sweet!!!!!
I feel your pain--going through it with my nephew. I'll keep you in my prayers, because I know it hurts like the dickens!
Keep your chin up!

Marynuala  (Level: 131.4 - Posts: 994)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:35 PM

It may seem that all hope is lost just now Magnolia, and you are naturally heartbroken. But things have a way of resloving themselves, and after these first nightmarish hours, things will get better. Tomorrow is a different day, and see what happy surprises it may bring. I have been there... but time, and a determination to sort things out, always wins.We will all pray for you, and you have friends at Sploofus.

Bigbird  (Level: 236.3 - Posts: 3300)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 1:49 PM

I feel terrible for you - I cannot imagine the sense of loss. But 200 miles is really close. Only a few hours by car. Can you visit for weekends? I would plan lots of loooong weekends. Keep your chin up.

Ladyvol  (Level: 203.0 - Posts: 5438)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 2:34 PM

Magnolia...I am so thoughts and prayers are with you...If there is anything at all I can do please don't hesitate to ask...Love ya,

Twinboymom2001  (Level: 67.0 - Posts: 197)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 2:35 PM

That is so sad! I will be thinkng of you and your granddaughter and hope things work out for the best in the end. It's hard to see that right now becuase of the tremendous loss and heartbreak right now. ((((HUGS))))

Vettage  (Level: 41.0 - Posts: 241)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 5:05 PM


I've never been one to say 'I know how you feel', but having a 5 year old daughter, I can say I understand. Be strong, things will get better,... thinkin' about you.

Eesusbejesus  (Level: 75.0 - Posts: 3645)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 7:12 PM

She'll be back before you know it.

Aquamar  (Level: 176.9 - Posts: 905)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 8:28 PM

Kathy, keep your chin up. Like Lodi said, "She will be back before you know it." I took care of my grandson from the time he was five months untill the court ordered him returned to his mother at seventeen months. I felt like my arm had been cut off. I missed him so much. I couldn't think of anything else but I went on as usual and he was returned to me in six weeks. Hang in there


Greyghost  (Level: 68.4 - Posts: 640)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 9:46 PM

Oh my,i am ss hun.My daughter was kidnapped for well over a year,she was only 18 months.Tg i got her back.My lord love,i know how it hurts,but you have us.I know that does not help much at the moment,but we are here.If you want to talk,just yell,i will be hear.

Magnolia1  (Level: 74.5 - Posts: 147)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 10:34 PM

pain is terrible,can,t take much more

Koota  (Level: 180.6 - Posts: 2098)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 11:16 PM

Hang in there, Kathy! Be strong for your granddaughter. You are in all of our prayers.

Chickfbref1  (Level: 120.7 - Posts: 2012)
Tue, 4th Apr '06 11:44 PM


To quote Wilson Phillips

"I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day
and Break free the chains
Yeah I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day and you
Break free, break from the chains

Donít you know things can change
Thingsíll go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day?"

Hang in there....


Mrsgc  (Level: 10.0 - Posts: 231)
Wed, 5th Apr '06 3:33 AM

Hi Kathy
I was sorry for you about your Grandaughter it must be hard when you are used to her being there all the time.
It is a good thing that her Mum is in the position to have her back though.
You have been very blessed though to get these few years alone with her. Many grand parents are lucky to see their grandkids for more than a few fleeting hours.
Why don't you spend some time writing down things that have happened while she has been with you - or maybe make a special album up with pictures and write ups to give to her when she is grown. It would help you fill the empty hours and also to heal your loss.

I hope you get to see her soon. When you do try to be strong for her as it must be realy strange moving home.

Magnolia1  (Level: 74.5 - Posts: 147)
Fri, 7th Apr '06 6:14 AM

Thank you so much for your kindness,will always remember it,the first day was the worst didn,t know how I was going to get through it so I decided to go crazy ,crazy housecleaning,crazy cooking,crazy shopping now I have the cleanest house in the neighorhood with all kinds of food cooked that I for sure won,t eat with silly things bought that I

Magnolia1  (Level: 74.5 - Posts: 147)
Fri, 7th Apr '06 6:24 AM

will for sure never use but anyway it helped at the time,thank you once again you are a good bunch....Kathy....sorry I the post button by mistake.

Bearpaw  (Level: 50.7 - Posts: 155)
Fri, 7th Apr '06 3:00 PM

I can identify with you. I did the same thing, but thank God my daughter got her act together. My grandson still has a problem with calling me Mommy even though I have always told him about his real Mom. He doing really well but still goes to therapy at 10 yrs old because of abuse by his father. I could go on about it, but I won't! I'll pray for you

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